Magic Mike Mania

So I've been seeing a lot of condemning posting on Facebook about Magic Mike and 50 Shades of Grey. Now I haven't seen or read either...yet! But I've had to hold my tongue (so to speak) several times over the past week, but tonight as I am trying to go to sleep I can't stop thinking about it. Ok now I'm not sayin that Magic Mike and 50 Shades of Grey are wholesome things that you need to read/watch, but I feel like everybody needs to lighten up! I mean let's be honest 95% of movies/TV shows that are rated PG13 and up are trash and almost all  have at least one sex scene. So that leads me to ask the question...Why are people so fired up about these two particular things??? You know what I think the answer is? Because Magic Mike and 50 Shades of Grey are geared directly to women. Sexism lives on people. I mean most of the movies/TV shows these days are made to stimulate men visually. Think about how many sets of boobs do you see in the average show/movie. Now think about how many male body parts you see in the average show/movie. Boobs win by a landslide...am I right? I just find it ridiculous that in 2012 people still hold women to different standards than men.  Everybody needs to get a grip!